Tragic news that came to me from a non blood related family member urged me to write this post today. D eath from the begininng of creation has been with mankind. From the era of Adam & Eve to this very day, death has been infinitely uncompassionate to many people and it continues its deprivation of human lives - some of the people lost to us took us through some very personal experiences and journeys, others have been at arms length experience. But close or not when death strikes, it takes us to a state of desponency, it brings sorrows and griefs, heartaches, it creates vaccum in our lives and these amongst many others are the traits that accompany death on its journey through life. It comes in to steal from us, dent our hopes and joy and leaves a mark which forever reminds us of the people we have lost, leaving behind the uncertainty that our paths may never cross again. Such are the tragedies which death presents when it knocks ...

I f someone really cares for you like they say they do, they will go out their way to make sure that you stay relevant in their life. Saying that you really care for someone is not a mere saying but rather doing things to indicate and impart that person's life. Saying you care about someone is not just offering lip service but showing it through convincing action. How often do you impart someone elses life? Caring does not mean succumbing to one's every need or been a " sucker " or a " yes man ", it's easy as making time to hear them out when they desparately need someone that they can talk to - this I believe goes a long way to show that you care. You may show that you care in a very different and special way - the key is if your action goes to impart that person's life you have succeeded, it's a good job done! From today go out your way and let that person stay relevant in your life when yo...